It’s the season of materialism and without realizing it we want new things!
We want things that promise to make life better and more exciting.
We think that we can’t live without these things even though we’ve lived without them our entire lives up to this point!
Before we follow the herd to local shopping malls and online dealers here are a couple of things to contemplate.
New things tend to wear out faster
When we first got married our dining room table was one that my grandparents bought in the 1920’s it was well built! 100 years ago when people bought new things they expected them to last a lifetime and sometimes longer! Today you’re lucky if that new thing is still working great a year or two down the road!
New things cost more
It’s usually cheaper to fix the old then buy a new one! There are also hidden costs in that new thing. For instance, you might be able to get a good deal on new iphone 5 but then you end up getting a case, a car charger and a few other accessories. All together you could easily spend 100-200$ than you weren’t planning on.
New things only make us feel better for a short time
That Christmas morning excitement that we feel when we hold our new thing in our hands doesn’t last for long. Once the shiny feeling has been tarnished we set out looking for more. The more often we buy new things the quicker we lose the “new thing feeling”.
New things are wasteful
I’m not just talking about the 10 layers of packaging on every new gadget. New things waste a lot of other things!
- They waste space in our home
- They waste our time as we try to figure out how to use them
- They waste our money
New things make us want more new things
I once spent a week cleaning out the house of someone who was addicted to QVC! Over the years she spent nearly $100,000 on things she didn’t need and couldn’t use. Eventually the entire house was stacked to the ceiling with unopened boxes. Her family had to temporarily move out because there was no room left for them!
This is the greatest problem with new things -they tend to make us greedy, materialistic and can be very addicting!
I’m not opposed to buying new things every once in awhile but we need to carefully consider our options.
If you decide not to buy something new, here are a few alternatives.
Invest in the old
My dad used to say (and probably still says!) “If I can’t fix it then it ain’t broken!” No doubt he saved our family thousands of dollars over the years by just fixing things!
Fix something broken and make it new again. Use your hands and your brain to repurpose old things you have laying around your house.
- Paint an old dresser
- Fix a broken chair
- Mend some clothes
Invest in relationships
Too often our shiny new things replace valuable time and energy that we could be investing into relationships!
- Invite a neighbor over for tea
- Make a phone call or even a trip to see friends far away
- Write a handwritten note
- Play with your kids
- Have a cup of coffee with your spouse
Invest in the eternal
How about giving to something we know will last forever? Consider a special gift to your church, helping out a missionary (I know a good one!)
or looking for opportunities to share Jesus by serving your community!
The truth is Christmas is not about new things rather it is about a new life, a new heart and a new hope! Don’t let new things drown out the Joy of new life that Jesus came to give on the first Christmas!
Debi @ FunkiPlanet.com
December 2, 2012This is great advice. I totally agree! It’s amazing what we can accumulate over time. This, that, the other thing. They all add up and we have little to show for it. Keep up the good work friends!!
Caleb
December 2, 2012Debbie, I’m preaching to myself in this post, plus we have a small apartment so often there actually is no room for new things! Thanks for the encouragement!
denissidak
December 4, 2012Сделайте перевод на русский!
Caleb
December 4, 2012Хорошо, я постараюсь это сделать!
vetal
December 4, 2012Googl хорошо переводит…Кейлоб хорошая статья. я согласен..
Caleb
December 4, 2012Спасибо Виталий! Google это не со всем хорошо но помигает. Я уже нашел человека, который согласился перевести статью. Может быть завтра уже будет готова.
Sara Leshley
December 4, 2012Инвестиции в отношениях
Слишком часто наши блестящие новые вещи заменить драгоценное время и энергию, которые мы могли бы инвестировать в отношения!
■ Пригласите соседей на чай
■ Сделать телефонный звонок или даже поездка к друзьям далеко
■ написать рукописную записку
■ Играйте со своими детьми
■ Выпейте чашку кофе с вашим супругом
Caleb
December 5, 2012Thanks Sara! I’m having it translated so it should be ready soon.
Caleb
December 5, 2012Перевод статьи есть на Русском -5 причин, почему не стоит покупать новые вещи https://sukofamily.org/?p=1740
Julie Mattern
December 9, 2012Caleb,
I can tell you from personal experience that this applies to Barbie dolls as well.
Caleb
December 9, 2012Julie, you’re right! Actually it can apply to just about anything!
Lacie Campbell
February 22, 2013I’m glad I found your blog, Lot’s good stuff on here! This fits us perfectly lately. Not about getting new stuff, but just getting rid of what we don’t NEED! We have just Soooo much stuff and 75% or more we could do without. I’m so eager to give it all away this coming spring! Especially with baby coming, and putting our home on the market! Lots of big changes are coming our way! 🙂
Caleb
February 24, 2013Getting rid of things is always a great way to simplify your life and focus on the things that are truly important. Thanks for the comment!
Kimberly A Edwards
December 13, 2013Very smart post, Caleb. I totally agree! Merry Christmas!
Caleb
December 13, 2013Thanks Kimberly! I hope you guys are looking forward to a nice warm Christmas down there in CA!
Kimberly A Edwards
December 13, 2013Thank you, Caleb. It’s been warm all along. going to be 80 one day coming up. So far, a family from church invited us to their Christmas event this Saturday. Nothing else. We’ll see.
Caleb
December 13, 2013Well, you can join us on livestream. I’ll be speaking on Christmas Eve. http://www.discoverybaptist.org/
Kimberly A Edwards
December 13, 2013Oh… I consulted my calendar for this and am reminded of our church’s candlelight service. I forgot since it’s weeks away. LOL